As I randomly saw a list of 30 random questions yesterday, I decided to answer 21 of them (because I just turned 21)—and being super honest. Perhaps you’ll get to know me better. *wink*
I found the list of the question on a tumblr page. And as I said before, I’ll choose only 21 questions and try to answer them briefly (unless you wanna read a 3000 words essay).
1. Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is.
WOW WHAT A FRESH START. Even the universe wants me to talk about my love life.
Anyway. I’m currently not in any relationship, and do you wanna know how single life is? It’s soooo damn good. *sarcasm level: max*
For me, I do enjoy being single—I have a lot of time for myself and I can have as many crushes as I want with nobody being jealous. But sometimes, I keep asking “where is my prince charminggg” LOL. Blame those korean dramas being super romantic and stuff. #AkuBaperan
The truth is, I’m not desperate to meet the one. It’s just that, at some point I randomly think about ‘how great this moment would be if I have this the one beside me’. But… nah, let’s just wait till the time is right.
In conclusion, I can’t deny that I like it to be obamaself. Seriously—I’m being honest.
2. Where you’d like to be in 10 years.
Hmmm. At the backyard of my little-yet-homey house, having an amazingly crazy time with my puppies—most likely they’re Golden Retriever or Samoyed.
3. A time you thought about ending your own life.
Never in my life have I thought about that. Growing up in a loving family and having friends who kindly stay for the way I am… I’m always grateful for everything. Okay, shit happens, love hurts, and GPA being so fragile (true story! lol)—but that’s ok because I got awesome people around me and after all, life is more beautiful when you count your blessings. #DEEP
4. Your zodiac sign and if you think it fits your personality.
[Based on astrology explanation on this web]
1. “Family and home are very important to Taurus”, well, this is 100% true—you may not believe it but I feel homesick almost everyday lol #anakrumahan
2. “Stability is the key word. Taurus loves Money, will work hard in order to earn more.” HAHA. This one is also true; as a woman, I’d like to be financially independent.
3. “Taurus woman appreciates the fine things in life, so if you want to seduce her, you can always take her to a nice restaurant.” HAHAHA because the fine things in life means delicious food.
5. Discuss your first love and first kiss.
I’m not sure if I have ever had first love. But I like a guy for the first time when I was in 6th grade (I even got a special nickname for him—haha I was just 12!). Oh and btw, I plan to have my first kiss on my wedding day, at the altar. So for now there’s nothing I can share, sorry. LOL.
6. Somewhere you’d like to move or visit.
I used to say I wanna move to Japan, but now I also consider Sweden. I mean, it’s just so nice living here, I’ll have this small house in pastel colour. And go to the park with my dogs every Sunday morning. What a good life.
7. Your favorite movie and what it’s about.
(my closest friends will already know my answer hahaha)
I LOVEEEE KUNG FU PANDA. So much that I’ve watched the first movie for 15 (or 16?) times already
Oh, and well, it’s all about a panda and kung fu. (duh)
8. What kind of person attracts you.
That kind of person who’s funny. Who will not just talk about themselves all the time, as they know when to be a good listener too.
And someone who loves dogs. HEHEHE.
9. Something that you miss.
HOME. Indonesian food. My dogs. Doing nothing in my own room for the whole day. Watch movies with my Mom and Dad #thirdwheeling. Order McDonalds delivery at 2am (REALLY). Laughing at unfunny jokes at midnight with my roommate. Endless conversation about where-to-eat-guys, back in Hong Kong. Speaking in Indonesian language. Wearing t-shirt, shorts, and flip-slops (Seriously, is now even Spring season?)
10. Your views on mainstream music.
Err.. I’m not sure. I guess everybody has different taste when it comes to music. I also don’t have a specific genre or artist that I love the most; if the song is good and catchy, then I’ll listen to it.
Btw, currently I’m into K-Pop guys! And honestly, I am not into k-pop because of the boyband members. I always make sure to fall in love with the song first.
11. How important you think education is.
Hmm. Most of the time, being well-educated will give us more opportunities to explore something new. But that doesn’t mean that every successful person has obtained a high degree. Not every educated person has great attitudes as well. So what I’m saying is, I do care about my education, and yeah it’s important, but it’s not the only thing. It comes with attitude and passion too.
12. Your beliefs.
I’m a Christian. And I’m not tryna sound religious here—I sometimes do things what I shouldn’t do, too. But I always give thanks for everything, try to plant and grow love in my heart towards others, and humbly put my life in His hands—for I know He’s the One who holds my future.
13. How have you changed in the past 2 years?
Looking back to the older version of me, I am now so much more independent. You know, I can cook proper food now (not that expert, but it’s eat-able, HAHA). I think I can handle hard situations in a calmer way, too. Maybe that’s the effect of having a single room here—I used to be grumpy and talk (a lot) to my closest friends immediately whenever something bad happens or things go not according to my plan. #youknowwhoyouare
14. A problem that you have had.
I’m only 5′ 1” and I still can’t believe that I can’t get any taller. It was so hard for me to get a suitable bike in Sweden. And I’ve had enough of people mistakenly think that I’m under 18—I mean, yea ok I’m in Europe now… what to expect.
15. A moment you felt the most satisfied with your life.
That time when me and my two amazing teammates won the first place in physics project olympiad. The process of making a bamboo helmet was tough and we almost had no life other than this project lol. But in the end every tears and sweat paid off, it was one amazing feeling (I remember I cried; thinking maybe I was born as an engineer… But, no hahah I’ll screw everything).
16. Disrespecting your parents.
There are times when I unintendedly make them feel bad. Like when I said, “I am 2o now so I know what’s good or bad”. But to be honest, as I’ve been living in HK for 3 years and now I’m even further away, sometimes I just wish to be with them for a longer time. That’s why I really treasure our time together, and so I always try my best not to disrespect them.
17. Put your iPod on shuffle and write 10 songs that pop up.
Toy – Block B
Here’s to Never Growing Up – Avril Lavigne
One Way – Hillsong
Heartbreaker – Justin Bieber
Drive By – Train
What Do You Want From Me – Adam Lambert
Nothing Lasts Forever – Maroon 5
Cinta dan Rahasia – Yura Yunita
Close to You – The Carpenters
I Miss You So Bad (아니라고) – iKON
18. Give pictures of 5 guys who are famous who you find attractive.
I’m a proud #Belieber / #VIP / #TeamCap / #TemanAhok / #MrBeanFan ❤️
19. Your highs and lows of this month.
Highs: Well, I’ve survived in Lund for 3 months. Been travelling and seeing a bigger world out there—I realize that this world is such a beautiful place.
Lows: The fact that I miss my home a lot that I wish time will go faster, but then I only got less than 2 months left here in Sweden that I wanna stay longer. It makes me a bit sad.
20. Goals for the next 30 days.
Pass my exams, have a good time travelling, and of course I’m gonna enjoy Lund to the fullest—make the most of it, and create good memories before going back home.
21. How you hope your future will be like.
Hm, I really hope that I will have or do something that makes my parents proud and happy. I hope that my future days will be filled by my loved ones and that I have my own library in my home. I hope that whatever my future will be, I can still be grateful and live happily.
Daaamnn, can’t believe that I make it till the last question.
If you’re reading this, I LOVE YOU. You’re so kind that you waste your time reading these random facts. Tack så mycket:) And have a great day ahead! ❤️❤️
Lund, 21 April 2016.